Opinions, please.

I need opinions, but this is such a personal thing that I don't know who to ask or even if I should. M and I haven't done anything for months. That is very unusual. It's just that I'm the one who initiates since he's sleeping when I go to bed. With everything that has gone on lately I am not interested. I'm happy reading and then falling asleep. Last night he stayed awake until I shut the lights out. I didn't want to at all. When he asked why I told him I didn't want to get into it when we were ready to go to sleep. I got up this morning and wrote down my reasons. I could give it to him when he comes home later this evening. I put everything out there though and I'm not sure he can handle it. What to do, what to do........